CHRISTIANS, WILL YOU ANSWER THESE TWO QUESTIONS?

god didnt put us on this earth to destroy us. he put us here having the FAITH in us that we will do the right thing and make this world a better place.. but as you can see the world is not better...and everyday people are dieing and its getting worse. the end of the world is near but a minute to god is a thousand years to us and a thousand years to us is a minute to god...so who really knows when the world will end but it is on its way. every natural disaster is a sighn...obama is a sighn and all the things happening in egypt is a sighn. and if people would read the basic instrustions before leaving earth (B-I-B-L-E) then people would open there eyes....my whole life all i was ever told about god is that hes real and theres a heaven and hell, heaven for good, hell for sinners and non believers. im nineteen now and with all this happening in the world i feel like i need to do good, because no one is promised tomorrow. just 4 days ago my girlfreinds good freind was ejected out through his windshield onto the top of a bus! he never had a chance...but the number one IMPORTANT this is that he BELIEVED in god and he is in heaven....i was at his funaral yesterday and his mother said he said "mom you dont have to worry about me, i know where im going" and we all know where he is...the funeral was sad , of course....but h=it would have been so much more hopeless if he didnt beleive...because then we would KNOW he was not in heaven and burning in hell forever... three weeks before this happend..one of my freinds struck a sophmore that goes to her high school with her car...she died instintly...it was a total accident..and trajic..it COULD HAVE BEEN ANYONE. the girl who was stuck was a believer too...and i know where shes at too. what im trying to say is...no one is actruly promised tomorrow...tomorrow could be your last day and all this happened to me and it makes me want to open my eyes more to god...i wasnt raised up in church and barely heard anyhting of gods word my whole life...but if today is my last day i want to make sure im saying "hey god thank you for everything" than "**** you satan". its better to believe in god than beleive in when you die its over...like going to sleep forever...god is real and you will see that when you die...even if you go to hell you see god before he SENDS you there...hes in control of everything. miscarrages happen when god wants the baby. god has a differnt plan for the baby...the baby goes straight to heaven...an easy shot...straight up. got it easy if u ask me...i am gay. i have a girlfreind but not once do i think god is going to send me to hell...murder and stealing a peice of gum is all a sin to god.. its the same..no sin is GREATER than another....the new testiment says three times about sending homos to hell....BUT we live by the new testiment.....and not once does the new testiment say anything about casting gays to hell. god is great.